Family Time: Tips for new moms going back to work
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Going back to work for new moms can be challenging. Learning to balance work and family while facing many new stressors can be overwhelming.
Jill Smokler, author of the New York Times bestselling book "Confessions of a Scary Mommy" and "Motherhood Comes Naturally (and Other Vicious Lies)," shares tips and tricks on how new moms can acclimate back into to the working world.
* Plan ahead: After working a full day and driving to daycare to pick up your baby, the last thing you're going to feel like doing is cooking dinner. My advice is to embrace the wonder of the crockpot by letting the machine fill your home with the scent of a freshly cooked meal while you're miles away at work. Another time-saving tip is to lay out all your clothes for the week on Sunday to avoid that moment of tearing apart your closet when you should already be in the car. Also, always charge your cellphone overnight.
* Celebrate the benefits: No, not the dental and vision plans, silly - the benefits you've been missing the last few months: Having a conversation that doesn't revolve around the consistency or color of poop, being able to go to an actual restaurant over your lunch break, writing TGIF as your Facebook status update and appreciating that you know what day it is.
* Reacquaint yourself with adult conversation before you head back to work: After months alone with a newborn, it's natural to forget how to interact with adults on a daily basis. Practice conversing with adults other than your spouse a few weeks prior to your return to work. Keep in mind not everyone can read your mind or understand that irrational screaming simply means you're craving a hug.
* Go shopping: Chances are you won't be fitting perfectly into your pre-pregnancy wardrobe by the time you head back to work, leaving you with two choices: 1. Rock the maternity outfits your co-workers saw you in all those months ago or 2. Wear your mom uniform of stained, black yoga pants and an oversized shirt to the office. However, there is a third choice and that is to go shopping. Getting new clothes that actually fit will do wonders for your self-esteem. Just be sure to check your shoulders before you leave the house, as spit up can be more prominent on a black business suit than a ratty old T-shirt.
* Give yourself a break: Whether you're missing your baby, not missing your baby or missing one of your baby's milestones, allow yourself to have an outburst every now and then. Just remember to pick yourself up and get back to work. Feeling guilty is a useless emotion that isn't going to help you focus on your job or get you home sooner to cuddle that baby of yours.
Family Movie Night
“Need for Speed” Rated: PG-13 Length: 132 minutes Synopsis: Fresh from prison, a street racer (Aaron Paul from “Breaking Bad”) who was framed by a wealthy business associate joins a cross-country race with revenge in mind. His ex-partner, learning of the plan, places a massive bounty on his head as the race begins. Violence/scary rating: 4 Sexual-content rating: 2.5 Profanity rating: 3 Drugs/alcohol rating: 3 Family Time rating: 3.5. This is on the higher end of the PG-13 scale, so caution is advised. (Ratings are judged on a five-point scale, with 5 being “bad for kids” and 1 being “fine for kids.”)
“Divergent” Ages: Young adult Pages: 487 Synopsis: In Beatrice Prior’s dystopian Chicago world, society is divided into five factions, each dedicated to the cultivation of a particular virtue — Candor (the honest), Abnegation (the selfless), Dauntless (the brave), Amity (the peaceful), and Erudite (the intelligent). On an appointed day of every year, all sixteen-year-olds must select the faction to which they will devote the rest of their lives. For Beatrice, the decision is between staying with her family and being who she really is — she can’t have both. So she makes a choice that surprises everyone, including herself. During the highly competitive initiation that follows, Beatrice renames herself Tris and struggles alongside her fellow initiates to live out the choice they have made. Together they must undergo extreme physical tests of endurance and intense psychological simulations, some with devastating consequences. As initiation transforms them all, Tris must determine who her friends really are — and where, exactly, a romance with a sometimes fascinating, sometimes exasperating boy fits into the life she's chosen. But Tris also has a secret, one she's kept hidden from everyone because she's been warned it can mean death. And as she discovers unrest and growing conflict that threaten to unravel her seemingly perfect society, she also learns that her secret might help her save those she loves ... or it might destroy her. - Katherine Tegen Books
Did You Know
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, childhood obesity has more than doubled in young children and quadrupled in teens in the past 30 years in the U.S.
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