Family Time: Tips to talk money with your children
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Who is responsible for teaching kids financial basics? Parents say they want to be the source of that information, yet they admit they aren't following through. Fewer than 50 percent of parents believe they are competent teachers of financial issues, according to the Money Lessons Survey.
The key with kids is to find some lessons that work and then repeat them until they sink in. Money skills are learned over time, and some of the best lessons are taught by what you do, rather than what you say.
1. Remember cash? With credit cards dominating our wallets, kids simply are not "in touch" with money. Help your kids see what money is by showing them coins and dollars and talking about their worth. Help them understand what money does by using cash for your purchases whenever possible.
2. Demonstrate the idea of "interest earned" by adding a small amount to what your kids save. Or offer to match the amount they save to help double their effort. Better yet, open a savings account for your child, either online or in person at a bank, and make the effort to talk about the value of saving over time.
3. Try this when shopping with your older kids. When they want to buy something now, ask them to "stop, think and choose." Stop to consider whether they want or need it, think how the money could be used more resourcefully and choose if the item is more important than other wants and needs.
4. With online bill pay and electronic bank statements, you have to be intentional about showing your kids the regular income and outflow of your family budget. Make a point of sitting at the computer with them to demonstrate these tasks.
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